Friday, November 30, 2018

That was a long time huh.

wow its already 2018/11/30

accidentally came back to this hiding hole from searching "how to say airbnb in japanese"
going to Osaka next month with the Top crew next month (woot woot)
malaysian visa free muthafuckerrr (woot woot)

read my posts from few years ago
damn
I came a long way

connecting from last post
he did cheat afterall
so girls, trust your gut when you feel like somethings off
cuz it most probably is

im never gonna forget how i found out so not gonna even write it down
till this day(after 4years)
I can still remember the 3rd wheels cellphone number off the top of my head
Im just very glad I didnt go check the cctv at the restaurant they went to
almost did though

I gave him a choice
he chose to stay
and I chose to give him another chance
but told myself I would never love him as deeply as before
and love myself first
read alot of blogs, ate alot of icecreams
KEEP CALM AND CARRY ON

fast forward to 2018
we moved out from that shit hole
got a dog 安安 and she gave birth to 大肥 and 宝宝
rescued a cat 钱钱 and a hamster 鼠鼠
fostered a red eye slider 浪浪(may he rest in peace)
Im working in a modeling agency as a scouter
have my own income
have my own friends
have my own life

with a side of him.

Love can be many different ways afterall.
it can be:
"i miss you, where are you, please come back"
or where i am at right now:
"stay safe"

all the people tell you
"women has to be finantially independant"
is very very TRUE.

when youre spending your own money
(or like me, also taking care of him cuz he lost his job god knows how many times)
you dont feel guilt at all

you saw something you like on taobao?
is it within your income amount?
buy la.
it makes you happy?
not too expensive?
buy la.
when you wear it you feel gorgeous?
aiyo why not?
buy la.
(eh where this malaysian accent suddenly came out)


end of year
again like everybody else in the world
gotta set a goal
but not new years goal
its RIGHT NOW goal
really gotta start working out

27 already
feeling my body crumbling by the second
ate hotpot yesterday and today i got a pimple
went karaoke yesterday and today i lost my voice
getting old....


WORK OUT!
WORK OUT!
健身!
健身!









hope nobody subcribes to my blogs
pity the people that need to read these haha

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Isolation : Last Day

Alarm wake me from my bad dream at 10am
Been having similar dreams these past week
Dreamt of him cheating on me
In my dreams
No matter what he does with his girl in front of me
I could never say anything
Couldn't yell or do anything
I just shut up and keep the pain inside me

"To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship.

Yes
I am insecure
I'm constantly afraid of losing him
Not necessary him cheating on me
But the mere thought of him leaving me is so scary that I keep on having dreams about it

Whatever happens in my dreams
I still have to go on with my day

The day was boring
Had an office gathering after work
It was okay
Arrived home at 8pm
Cleaned up the room a little
He's coming home tomorrow
Finnaly
My nightmare is over
Or so I think
HMMM....

Wednesday, May 21, 2014

Isolation : Day 6

早上找了很多人
終於成功付款了
謝謝小黃幫我付
葉少爺你快點回來啦
我工作很麻煩耶

昨天收回的風機原來是要騙我錢
現在他說我要賠償他
說他損失大
變成說足球跟風機不能算我便宜
打電話給少爺後
決定全退

從早上11點吵到3點
真的很傷身
跟他說了要全退後他又妥協了
就收我兩個足球跟兩個風機的錢
累死我了
好不容易解決後
唐亮又說足球要掛著的

現在變成說有4個足球
兩個掛 兩個地上的
會不會被罵我不知道
少爺一定會罵我是不用說的
希望可以報銷比較重要


看來最近吃的壞掉的食物是真的壞掉
哈哈
我很喜歡自作自受
每次知道食物壞了都覺得很可惜
為了不浪費
只要不發黴都會吃掉
昨天用酸了的肉煮了肉醬意大利面來吃
肚子痛到現在
但這樣應該會瘦吧
嘻嘻
給少爺知道他又要罵我了

10:30pm
少爺自動打給我
太開心了
聊了半個小時
他又受不了了
說要去大便
然後就掛了


Then I continue with my Youtube life
My friend of the night is Xiaxue

2:20am
Going to bed!

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Isolation : Day 5

Wrote this on Day 6 so that means good
Since I don't have much to say means nothing happened

The usuals:
Work
Home
Youtube

Lets talk a little bout work
公司為了迎接世界杯要搞活動
月頭就定了的充氣吉祥物今天到了
打開看了質量覺得很差
但因為原本答應好的風機還沒到
就沒有充起來看看了
想說等隔天
結果晚上到家
賣家發了他們充起來的照片給我
我操
完全不一樣東西
真的無語
跟他吵了一晚
終於同意退款
但是他說風機要收回3臺反正用不到
我說好
之後我找了別家
比較好看還比較便宜
答應我5號發貨10號到貨
希望這個不會爽約

之後洗澡就睡覺了
最近都3,4點才睡
都是Running Man的錯










This is what they promised


This scary thing is what they made


Seriously?
對話才好笑
我說很醜,跟答應的不一樣
他說哪裏不一樣呢親


你是腦殘還是瞎的

Monday, May 19, 2014

Isolation : Day 4

Yet another early start at 5:30am
Stupid taxi bailed on me at the very last minute
But luckily the app DiDiTaxi is quite fast so I arrived earlier than usual
It was a great morning since I got enough sleep last night
Work is boring as usual
Went supplies shopping for Bakery department
Ran out of cash and borrowed a little from Bar Dept. manager's credit card
4pm and finally off work
Procrastinated a little and suddenly realize its 11pm

His mom said he will come back at 11pm after his high school friends gathering
He texted at 11:11pm said he's gonna have some food with Uncle Choo
I waited for an hour without any response thinking I should have just bathe first
Finally called at 12:26am
He told me he's busy this whole day and couldn't reply my message
I told him bullshit
He got angry and hung up

Like what was I suppose to say?
"Oh you're busy drinking with friends so much that you cant even take a second to text me *I'm drinking with Eric* ?"
Like it only takes a fucking second to type that!
It's so obvious that he doesn't even wanna try
Why do guys always do this?
Make himself into a jerk and force you to be the one to break it up
Make you go insane about everything and couldn't function
Make you feel like suicide and just give up
I thought you're the one who said 感情是两个人的
Then what the fuck are you doing now?
Are you gonna say you're TRYING?
Do you even dare to say that out loud?
Lie to yourself?
And then make me end our relationship so you feel like you're innocent?
Waste all our precious time?
Douchebag Motherfucker
I really wanna destroy everything now
You're too cold hearted to even think of hanging up after neglecting me the whole day
Do you know what I always worry about every time you get mad at me and "give up" like you always do?
I'm afraid that once we have children, you would just leave like your dad did to you and your mom
That's what I'm afraid of
Now don't you dare say I think too much
That is highly possible
You can't even handle me how are you gonna handle kids?

I texted his mom and asked for her help
Hoping for her to persuade him to talk to me
Fingers crossed
Almost 1am and I don't think he's gonna call me


1am he called
We had a half an hour talk
He tried to explain the neglecting
I mean I get it but I also don't
I know he's busy
But I don't know why he doesn't try to make it work
If it was me
I could'hv just stopped, tell my friend that I have to take a call, or simply just texted him about who I'm with and what I'm doing
Or if you don't want to look like a jerk in front of your friends
Just go to the restroom and text! You have to pee right?
I mean if other people's boyfriend can do it(the reassurance)
Why couldn't he?
And you see why I think he's making excuses
So after the conversation I still think he doesn't have the excuse to not even read my message for the whole 24 hours
If you have time to pee, you have time to text

Anyways, it was a good talk I guess
This time he did try
He talked to me patiently
Try to make sense to me
And promised to try and make time for me
Hope he keeps his promised
Should'hv press record

One other thing I couldn't explain is the physical pain I'm getting every time I'm missing him...
When is it ever gonna go away?
The pain is so bad I really couldn't function except just cry helplessly
It will last around 3 minutes depending on how long my "extreme cry" lasts
(like the part where the cry hits climax)
Maybe it just means that I really do love him










Shit
What if he really does cheat on me
Shouldhv marked the condom I put in to make sure it's the original one
GAH
If he really do wanna cheat then I couldn't stop him either
Whatever happens happened
Well not yet but you know
If it does I would have no choice
2 actually
Stay or Leave













I don't know.